THE UNBECOMING EXPERIENCE
Maybe you don't need to become someone new.
Maybe you need to Unbecome everything you were taught you had to be.
A 5-day live experience for women who are ready to question the rules they've been living by, hear their own voice underneath the noise, and trust themselves enough to choose what they actually want.
Somewhere along the way, you learned who you were supposed to be.
How to be good.
How to be liked.
How to keep the peace.
And maybe you got so fucking good at being her that you stopped asking...
Who the fuck am I?
Because underneath all the roles, expectations and shoulds...
you're still there.
The woman who trusts what she feels.
Who knows what she wants and lets herself want it.
Who says no without drowning in guilt.
Who expresses herself without constantly checking whether she's too much.
Who makes choices because they feel true, not because they'll keep everybody else comfortable.
Who feels playful. Expressive. Connected.
Alive.
Not a better version of you.
Not a new you.
More of YOU.
Five days to start peeling back the layers.
THE RULES
What have you been living by that you never consciously chose?
THE STORIES
What's actually true — and what's simply been repeated for years?
YOUR BODY
What do you already know underneath all the thinking?
YOUR DESIRES
What do you actually want?
YOUR CHOICE
What changes when you start choosing accordingly?
Here's how we'll do it...
SUN 25 OCT · 8PM — LIVE ZOOM
MON 26 OCT — WHATSAPP EXPERIENCE
TUE 27 OCT · 8PM — LIVE ZOOM
WED 28 OCT — WHATSAPP EXPERIENCE
THU 29 OCT · 8PM — LIVE ZOOM
3 Live experiences.
2 WhatsApp experiences.
Private community.
7-day replay access.
$44
Hello, I'm Ferne.
I haven't created UNBECOMING because I've got life all figured out.
I've created it because I've lived what it feels like to lose yourself inside the roles you've learned to play and what can happen when you start questioning them.
I've built identities and outgrown them. Lost parts of myself in motherhood. Questioned the rules I'd been living by. Learned to listen to my body, trust myself, express more of who I am and make choices that don't always make sense to everybody else.
And I'm still unbecoming too.
My work is about creating spaces for women to come back to themselves, with enough softness to feel held and enough edge to actually meet themselves differently.
Soft enough to land.
Safe enough to unravel.
Brave enough to meet your edge.
And fuck, I can't wait to have you in the room.
A few things you might be wondering...
What if I can't make all three lives?
You'll have access to the replays for 7 days after our final live. But if you can come live, I really encourage you to — this experience has been created to be lived together.
Do I need any previous experience?
No. Come exactly as you are. I'll guide you through everything, and you're always invited to participate at your own pace.
Where does everything happen?
Our three live experiences happen on Zoom, with our private WhatsApp space holding everything between sessions.
How long do I have access?
Our WhatsApp space stays open until 48 hours after the final live, and your live-session replays remain available for 7 days after our final session.
Is this therapy?
No. The UNBECOMING Experience is an educational and experiential personal-development space. It isn't therapy or a replacement for medical or mental-health support.
Maybe you're not here to become someone new.
Maybe you're ready to hear yourself again.
To trust yourself.
To want what you want.
To choose what feels true.
To feel more like you.
You don't need to know who you're becoming yet.
Let's start with what you're ready to UNBECOME.
THE UNBECOMING EXPERIENCE
25th–29th October 2026
3 live Zoom experiences · 8pm UK
2 WhatsApp experiences
Private community · 7-day replay access
$44